STEPHANIE CARDAMONE
Tuesday, August 18th, 2009I said I would take a break from Blogging but something big happened last week. Something every kid who feels forgotten can lean on and learn from. Stephanie Cardamone committed to Bryant University. Now this may not be a big a story to most. I believe this a huge event for one reason and one reason only. She did it quietly. She now is a role model for any player under the radar. When you attend Freehold Township High School, you are not on college coaches must stop and see list. Miss Cardamone made no All Shore or All State Teams. Now you may ask how a future Div 1 player can be so forgotten. It simple! People want to talk about and follow the best teams. Not every kid is lucky enough to play on such teams. But here is why every kid and parent should remember the name Stephanie Cardamone
First Cardamone did something very few kids do today. She played the game because she loved it! This is a kid who never passed on a game or work out. In a time when the first thing kids ask before showing up in the gym is “who is playing” or “what college coaches’ are coming?” Cardamone had another question. What time and where. She watched as other girls got more recognition than she did. She watched other kids take short cuts and still get love from the media as she got little or none. Yet she stayed the course. Never bitter always smiling.
The first time I met Stephanie was in a gym. That’s a great start for any kid trying to get better. Then I watched her play AAU for a not so great team. In fact I will go on record and say it was a joke program. This is one of the few times you will see me write something negative on my Blog. I need to make a point in this case. The team was made up of players who were not committed and neither was the coach. What did Stephanie do? She asked the central jersey hawks younger team could she practice with them. I said Practice not play! How many kids would practice with a younger group of girls knowing they would never play in games…I have the answer… only the special ones. It’s called putting your ego aside. This is a kid who wanted to get better and did not care how she did it. If the coaching wouldn’t come to her, she would go to it.
I want to talk a little more about her work ethic. This was a typical week for Stephanie. She would go work out on weekends with Don Hampton who loves to teach, she attended NBS a great place to test your talent. Then she would do her weight training during the week and show up at core skills twice a week. I forgot one important thing. The kid simply went all out all the time. She thought nothing of fighting with her mom because she wanted to stay later in the gym or refused to leave the gym because of family personal commitments. The young lady had a goal and was not going to allow anyone to out work her!! Remember she had to do it without fanfare.
This summer Stephanie went to Australia to play! She wanted to challenge herself…. Then she played for the Don Hampton’s AAU team. She needed some exposure. There are no guarantees playing for Don Hampton. Stephanie could have easily been lost in the mist of all the talent on this team. They have five division one players! Including Brooke Hampton, who is a Big East player, get the picture? Yet she believed her talent was special. I was sitting in my house one afternoon and got a text from a college coach. The text read “just saw Hampton team play, Cardamone the best player in the building today”. I forwarded that text to Mrs. Cardamone, I wanted her know that coaches were seeing the light. That yes her daughter was special. All the driving and money spent on training was now going to be rewarded. The fact she and her husband believed in her daughter was the key to everything. The long hours and endless road trips that make you wonder is it worth it? They got their answer…YES..about a month later I got another call from a school. They were trying to reach the Cardamone family in the worst way. This Div 1 School wanted to offer Cardamone. The family was driving to Florida to watch Stephanie do what she loves…play basketball! Mrs Cardamone said tell him we will get back to them. Stephanie was doing what she liked most at that time…playing basketball! Stephanie had more than her fair schools to choose from… She picked a great one I think… She did it without HYPE and more important she did it by out working the system. If you are a player at a school under the radar, the media has forgotten you; you win no awards and have no talking you up! Pick up the Stephanie Cardamone blue print on how to make a NAME FOR YOURSELF, LOVE THE GAME and GET BETTER EVERYDAY… Put your ego away; don’t worry that a Tiny Green doesn’t write about you on a Blog. Believe in yourself and your family…. THEN YOU WILL LIVE THE DREAM….Stephanie Cardamone is an example of….. It’s what YOU BELIEVE and not what others think!!!….Stephanie Cardamone a role model for the forgotten!…The Ricco race is over and Stephanie Cardamone you win by a MILE:)
